打破性的迷思 

Sex Myths Busted 

 

大部份人都羞於談性。我們要打破一些最常見的迷思,為你帶來真相(在此處已經可以跟你說:你的伴侶都不會有14吋長的陰莖)。 

Most people are too shy to talk about sex honestly. We've busted some of the most common myths to bring you the truth (And no, your mate probably doesn't have a 14 inch penis.) 

 

我不正常? 

I'm not normal 

 

長有毛髮的乳頭、下垂的乳房、不對稱的睪丸—— 所有人都有他們所憂慮的事情。再來,什麼東西你認為最性感,又或者誰人你覺得他很棒……你很少機會可以與人分享你所關注的事,我們都太害怕去談及這些話題。即使你有其他獨特的癖好,其實也是很正常的。 

Hairy nipples, droopy boobs, lopsided balls – everyone has insecurities. And then there's what and who you find sexy... But chances are you share most of your concerns with other people – who are also too shy to discuss it – and have some unique quirks. That's as normal as it gets. 

 

站著性交的方式 / 月經時性交 / 第一次性交,都不會懷孕? 

You can't get pregnant if you have sex standing up/on your period/the first time you have sex 

 

你每次進行性行為,都有懷孕的風險,因此除非你希望孕育孩子,否則每一次都要保持安全。精子可以在身體內生存幾天,而且一條精子就能令人懷孕。衛生套及女性衛生套能夠提供良好的保護,以及預防性病毒感染。更好的是,你亦可以配合其他形式的避孕方法得到加倍安全及預防性病毒。 

You risk pregnancy every time you have sex, so have safe sex every time, unless you want a baby. Sperm can survive in the body for several days and it takes one to get someone pregnant. The condom or female condom is great for safe sex and it protects against Sexually Transmitted Infection (STIs). Better still, you can use them with other forms of contraception to be extra safe and STI-free. If you've struggled with condoms, trying a different size such as Close feel or Comfort Fit can help. For more information see Brook (http://www.brook.org.uk/) or the Family Planning Association (http://www.fpa.org.uk/) 

 

如果你愛一個人,你就要與對方做愛? 

If you love someone, you have to have sex 

 

在催促一個未有準備的人與其做愛,這已經不是愛了;同時性行為亦不可以「證明」愛。每一個人都需要不同時間去作準備(有少數人感到從來未準備好),因此還是跟隨你自己的步伐吧! 

Pressuring someone to have sex before they are ready is not loving, and having sex does not 'prove' love. Everyone feels ready at their own time (a few people never feel ready at all) so take it at your own pace. 

 

口交是安全的? 

Oral Sex is Safe 

 

口交不會導致懷孕,但仍然可以傳染性病毒,包括淋病、皰疹和衣原體。而因口交染上性病的數目,目前有上升的趨勢。如果想口交安全,可以使用加有味道的男性衛生套與女性使用口腔保護膜(乳膠墊片),以上兩者都很容易在網上買到。如果你長有唇瘡,不要予人口交,因為它是其中一種皰疹種類,同樣能夠傳染。 

While you can't get pregnant from oral sex, it can still spread STIs including gonorrhoea, herpes and chlamydia – and orally transmitted STIs are currently on the increase. For safer oral, use flavoured condoms on a man and dental dams (latex squares) to cover a woman: both are easily available online. If you get cold sores, don't give oral while you have one as they are a form of herpes and can spread. 

 

男性如果沒有性行為,便會因為睪丸劇痛而死亡? 

A man will die from blue balls if he doesn't have sex 

 

缺乏性行為是不會傷害男性或女性的。你可能會感覺沮喪、緊張或慾求不滿,即使感到痛楚,亦不會有任何傷害。自慰能夠幫助舒緩緊張的情緒,就讓你的手指去做這一件事吧! 

Lack of sex can't harm men or women. You might feel frustrated, tense or horny but even though the ache can feel real, it does no damage.  Masturbation helps relieve the frustration so let your fingers do the walking... 

 

While you can't get pregnant from oral sex, it can still spread STIs